Has the Truth Ever Passed Though Your Lips?

This is my son, Johnny.  Now, I did not give birth to him.  He has an Angel Momma.  I did watch him take his first steps and hear him speak his first words and I love him ever so much.  Johnny has a special story that he and I will be telling.  I wish I had seen him before he was shipped off to his “dad’s” parent’s house way back when.  You see his black eyes in his first two baby pictures?  Those were neither the first bruises nor the last that his “dad” inflicted on him.  See, His “dad” is a Narcissistic Sociopath.  People like that place roles on the children in the home.  Johnny’s role was the Scapegoat.  The following defines scapegoating and how Johnny was treated in the home with the encouragement of his “dad”.  Why?  I have a theory.  I will tell you all about it during the telling of Johnny’s story.  This is enough for the moment.  There is so much more and still many questions that we, Johnny and I, would like answered.  Johnny deserves answers.  Johnny did not deserve to be beaten so badly and so often.  Who gives a baby a black eye?  My Narcissistic Sociopathic Ex-Husband does without even blinking an eye.

I will be laying it all out.  Why John Jaramillo detests Johnny so much, what John Jaramillo robbed Johnny from not just Johnny, but a nice group of people and how resilient Johnny is in overcoming such an abusive past.  There are parts of this story that are sick and twisted.  I love you Johnny.  Be sure to let me know if I should add or change anything. ❤  We will go slow.  One piece at a time.  This is a pretty good introduction, you think?  You are amazing.  Don’t ever forget that.  You are none of those things he said you were.  He was projecting himself onto you.  That means he saw you as a mirror and everything he said was meant for himself.  He simply is incapable of accepting criticism, blame, or anything else that shows who he really is.

Scapegoating. 

“Scapegoating is a serious family dysfunctional problem with one member of the family or a social group being blamed for small things, picked on and constantly put down. In scapegoating, one of the authority figures has made a decision that somebody in the family has to be the bad guy. The mother or father makes one child bad and then looks for things (sometimes real, but most often imagined) that are wrong.” (Lynn Namaka, “Scapegoating“)

Often, the emotional child abuser will encourage, through his or her actions and treatment of the scapegoat, the other children to also pick on the scapegoat, so that the scapegoat has no allies in the family. ~ The Invisible Scar


Narcissistic Sociopaths believe they are unique, yet they are all the same.  They all have the same traits and patterns of behavior.  John Jaramillo has every single trait of the Narcissistic Sociopath including:

Lack of remorse or guilt. A lack of feelings or concern for the losses, pain, and suffering of victims; a tendency to be unconcerned, dispassionate, coldhearted, and unempathic. This item is usually demonstrated by a disdain for one’s victims.

I’ll be going through the list and providing real life examples which includes John’s very own written words.  How else can a guy beat his best friend to a bloody pulp just because his best friend received a text message from his ex-girlfriend, who happens to be Johnny’s aunt (mother’s sister), that said two simple words that everyone says to everyone else, every year.  “MERRY CHRISTMAS”  if he isn’t sick in the head?  I’ll have that story for you too.

With all my love,

Mel

JJ,

No more secrets. No more lies. What was it you told me?  The truth shall set us free?  It isn’t going to set you free.  It is going to get you locked up where you belong.

Toodles.

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“Now you can answer to Social Security.”

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Oh look.  Somebody is angry.  I don’t recall what he was angry about that time.  I am curious to know what I did.  I will have to match the date with something I said or did that caused him Narcissistic Injury.  I think I am going to do this one a little differently.  I will go line by line.

To the tweeker!!!

I laughed when I saw that you felt the need to use three exclamation points.  One would have had the same effect without making you look ignorant.

And all those exclamation marks you notice?  Three?  A sure sign of someone who wears underpants on his head. (Terry Pratchett, Maskerade)

I am curious to know when you decided to come up with the tweeker lie.  Would you care to fill me in?  I didn’t think so.  Shall we discuss this?  Let’s make a comparison chart.

  JJ Mel
Have you ever been drug tested? Hair or urine?
How many times have you been tested?
Of those, how many did you fail/pass?
Ever been charged and found guilty of a drug related offense?
Ever been to prison for drugs?
Are you a drug dealer?
Are you employed?
How long have you been with your current employer?
Are your finances in order, bills not only paid but paid on time?
Yes, Both
Dozens
Failed all, passed none
Yes
Yes
Yes
No
n/a
No
Yes, Both
Dozens
Failed none, passed all
No
No
No
Yes
10 years
Yes

So let’s see….who has more indicators of being a tweeker, you or me?

Not done screwing with me yet? OK!

I am not sure I understand the question.  It is not really in question form.  If you mean by telling the truth about who you are and what you’ve done then I am “screwing you”, then the answer would be no.  I am not done yet.  I will not be done for a while longer.  Once you are securely behind bars where monsters like you belong, then I will stop and let Bubba take over.  Until then, I will continue telling the world who you really are.

Now you can answer to Social Security.

What would I have to answer to Social Security for?

I was not pursuing that.

You mean you had not thought of filing a false report against me with Social Security until now.

But now you want to start more.

Are you talking about me screwing with you again by exposing you to the world?  I never stopped.

Ok you got it!

Do you really think your silly little threats have any affect on me anymore?  You’ve reported me multiple times to multiple agencies already yet you still haven’t got a clue.  What possesses you to believe that you can file a false report without any evidence but your word, which means shit by the way, and they are simply going to believe you when all of the documentation says otherwise?

Hope you have fun dealing with the Federal Government!!! Smile

They are already aware of your antics.  Do you remember the Request for Production of Documents I sent to you?  I filed that Request in court as well.  I have also forwarded it to Social Security and the Bank.  A fraud investigation was initialized and that is why your father is now rep payee.  I love the way your idiot friends believe the bullshit that pours out of your mouth.  Here is the request I filed followed by the conversation we had regarding this very issue.  Enjoy the rest of your day.

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